Don't Worry About Tomorrow

A few months ago I was checking out at the grocery store alone, a rare occurrence. As I moved to the front of the line I noticed the clerk checking people out was only using one hand to scan every item and put them in bags. At first I thought she did not have a right hand, but as I got closer I noticed her right hand was just down by her side, lifeless, like she didn't even know it was there. 

I really wanted to ask her why she couldn't use that hand, what had happened to her hand, but in the 30 seconds I stood there before her I could not figure out an appropriate way to ask without coming across insensitive. Also, I didn't have Hannah with me, who usually helps me to start those types of conversations. 

A few months ago we knew Hannah had trauma to the right side of her brain because of the CMV, every doctor and therapist told us this would lead to left side weakness but we really didn't know what that would look like down the road. 

When I saw the clerk in Kroger I got a glimpse of what could be. 

I started to worry. 

Now that Hannah is moving more we can see how much she favors her right hand and how hard it seems to be to move her left. 

It's hard to pull up with one hand that's stronger than the other. It's harder to crawl, it's harder to eat. 

For the most part Hannah is adapting. I am amazed at what she can do with that right hand, but we want her to use her left too. 

And we don't want it to be so hard. 

There are days when she puts things in that hand, brings the left to a toy, claps, and more. But at other times it seems like she is totally disregarding it. 

As I understand it, using her left hand doesn't make sense in her brain. Even if she was older and could understand me telling her to move it she could not do it. 

That's why she's in therapy. 

That's why it's important to start early and work with her hand often. 

I wonder if the clerk at Kroger had therapy or the chance to use her hand?

It's hard not to constantly wonder what the future will look like for Hannah. What she will do, how she will be looked at by others. 

That's why I entitled this post "Don't worry about tomorrow" because I know God has given me enough strength, love, grace for today. That's where my mind needs to be. That's where I need to place my trust. That God has this. That he has Hannah in His hand. 

Would you pray that our family will focus on today and not what may happen tomorrow? Believing God is full of grace for the unknown. 

Also, will you pray Hannah will be able to crawl?  We've learned that pushing up to a crawling position can significantly increase the strength of her left arm. 

We know this is possible, but it's hard. 

Thank you. 

"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."

Matthew 6:34