We're Okay

Thank you everyone for your outpouring of love, support and prayers. It means so much to us to read your comments and really be carried daily by your prayers. 

We are going through something no one should have to endure. Child-sickness is horrible to hear about, but when it's your child it takes over your whole being.  We wake up and go to sleep thinking about it. And every time we look at sweet Hannah. 

...so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope. For we believe that Jesus died and rose again.   1 Thessalonians 4:13-14

WE HAVE HOPE. We know who goes before us and we long for His return, maybe even more now than ever before. 

So as Hannah's first Christmas approaches we are thankful for all The Lord has given us and the hope of what's to come. It's more than I could have ever imagined and my heart is full even in the midst of hard news. 

              Merry Christmas to all!

Hannah Update

Thanks everyone for praying for Hannah and her neurology appointment. It did not go as well as we prayed for. It was not all bad but there was not a lot of hope that the doctor gave us for things to be normal. He told us that there was a good chance she would develop epilepsy. In fact a 70% chance she will have some degree of epileptic seizures. He stated even though she has developed correctly so far we will see delays. How severe he couldn't say. As I rewind the conversation in my head I notice he continually chose not to say hopeful things. Basically, he compared her brain damage to a scar that would never heal. How bad that damage is may take years to reveal, but don't expect normal. 

This information is what I'd read on the internet, but I just long for normal. We purposely prayed daily during Ellie's pregnancy for a normal, healthy baby.  This is not normal though, and I am just sad. I think about my loss and I feel guilty because Hannah's loss is greater.  It seems there are too many thoughts to take captive right now.  Based on her brain the doctor believes that Hannah acquired the virus in late second to third trimester. He said it was acquired randomly somewhere in Louisville. Ellie and I were already struggling with our move to Louisville because of the great community we had in Austin.  Now it is hard not to say:  "If I wouldn't have moved my family to Louisville everything would be normal". "Did I miss something?" "Did I manipulate this move and not listen to the Lord?" "Am I Jonah or Job in this story?" I know that even if we were not meant to be in Louisville it does not matter. I know that looking back is not what God wants. 

For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope. Jeremiah 29:11

I also see where I put my hope. My hope right now is in "normal" whatever that is. Ellie sent me a blog yesterday here . It spoke to us and the writer, who just discovered her husband had cancer, went through this verse “Blessed is the man who trusts in the Lord, whose trust is the Lord. He is like a tree planted by water, that sends out its roots by the stream, and does not fear when heat comes, for its leaves remain green, and is not anxious in the year of drought, for it does not cease to bear fruit.” (‭Jeremiah‬ ‭17‬:‭7-8‬ ESV). We feel the heat and my trust is wavering. I seek out and pray for this trust as the drought is here.  I pray that our trust and hope is in the Lord not "normal". 

The verses for the day on the blog were some verses I have been praying through. 

Psalm 46:1, “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.” (NIV)
Psalm 118:14a, “The LORD is my strength and my song.” (ESV)

Please pray, as Ellie and I don't feel very strong right now.  Pray that we would feel His strength. 

6 month challenge!

Can you see them? They are really tiny, but Hannah got her hearing aids Friday!

Here's a better picture (knocked out after our long day). Pretty pink for my girl.

It's SO much fun to hear my daddy's voice!

We've had quite a few adjustments over the last few days. Hannah has taken them like a champ, but she's tired. Hey, we're all tired!  But with the hearing aids (and mama constantly adjusting them) and anti-viral meds she's had a lot of change. 

She started the meds Friday afternoon and is getting the dose 2 times a day for 6 months. So far it's hard to tell if she has any side effects. She does seem to be a little more fussy, like her stomach hurts or something, but it's hard to tell. We are praying she will adjust and can calm down a little. 

A sweet friend of mine told me she and her kids will be praying for Hannah everyday for the next 6 months of her treatment. That really spoke to me and gave me the idea to extend that challenge to all of you. 

Will you pray for Hannah everyday?(today through June 7, 2015). Her 9 month birthday :). 

We believe The Lord can heal her brain and ears and prayer is what we need. 

Here are things you can pray (+ anything else you think of). 

1. Pray the anti-viral meds will completely erraticate the virus from her body. 

2. Pray her brain will heal and she will not have any long term side effects. 

3. Pray her hearing does not get any worse. 

and for us...

4. Please pray we will have hope and don't go to dark places of worry and fear about the unknown. 

Thanks to all of you who constantly tell me you are praying and have asked how you can help. We have felt carried by prayer. 

Tomorrow we see an ophthalmologist and hope to get in with a neurologist soon. It's a lot for this little life. 

Eli answered, "Go in peace, and may the God of Israel grant you what you have asked of him." 1 Samuel 1:17

from a mamas perspective

A week ago I knew very little about MRIs, hearing loss, infectious disease and especially CMV. We basically tested Hannah for CMV to rule it out, not find a diagnosis.

We've gone through every emotion from extreme saddness and fear to anger and hope. I have to say that Thanksgiving weekend was the longest weekend of my life. A doctor should never deliver this news on a Friday afternoon with little information and instructions to just "wait until Monday". Our minds went crazy. 

By the time Monday came I was actually glad to see Keith leave for work so we could stop talking about it. And of course with 2 little ones my mind went to feeding and playing cars and rocking to sleep and watching curious george. And when they would both nap. Fear crept in. 

I believe the only thing that is holding us up right now is the prayers of the saints. 

Honestly, Hannah has been a challenging baby from the start. I actually wrote an entire blog post about how bad colic is when she was about a month old (that I never published) which seems pointless now. We don't know and may never know if those symptoms were CMV related or just colic. So far every doctor thinks they are separate. 

I never wanted this blog to go here. I just wanted it to share about life. Kids growing up, holidays, first days of school but not grief and a sick child. But, maybe that's what The Lord wanted. This is all part of the broken world we live in. 

As I started out saying, you never know what you can handle until you have to. Sometimes I feel like I'm barely hanging on, but that's when I must cling to Christ. 

A wise friend told me "when you look into the future and think about "what may happen" or "worse case senarios" you are picturing a future without God." I don't know the plans for Hannah's life but I am blessed to be a part of the story and see how The Lord ordains every step. 

If you're still reading thanks for staying with me. I know this has been an array of thoughts but I wanted to write them down and share a little from my heart. 

Thank you for praying for our girl. With anti-viral medicine prescribed we now wait to see how it attacks the virus in her brain and ears over the next 6 months. We are trusting The Lord for complete healing but, as Keith said, we must hold health loosely and watch to see how The Lord writes Hannah's story.